Failure Is not an Option

What is perseverance? The steady persistence in a course of action, a purpose, a state, etc., especially in spite of difficulties, obstacles, or discouragement.

But what does it mean to me?

1. I must have moxie. What is Moxie? It’s Maine’s signature soda, a mainstay with my Libby-Keith family, but something for which I never acquired a taste. Or shall we say it’s the courage to proceed even when failure is looming.

2. I also need a bit of backbone. Beyond my skeletal spine, I must have the will to stand up to confront the obstacles. Failure is not an option.

3. To risk another cliché, I must be like a dog with a bone and not let go of my goal. Write that book. Done. Publish it with fortitude. Done. Achieve marketing success. A WIP (work in progress).

a. Fish where the fish are. Trying to do that in social media. Facebook. LinkedIn. What else?

b. Let my core audience lead me to my adjacent audience. Trying to figure that one out. Any suggestions? (continued at c. below.)

From  Sally Ande says re: Beware the Sleeping Dog by K.A. Libby: “I enjoyed the subject matter very much, as psychological abuse is not addressed very often. The author is very good at describing her surroundings and soon you are knee deep in suspense and intrigue. I would certainly recommend you read her book!”

c. Become a mastermind of SEO (Search Engine Maximization). This week’s goal is to rework my ADP tags for my book. When I figure that one out, I’ll share.

4. Exercise sedulity. Now there’s a word. I must be diligent. I must work hard. And I must remember that the only time success comes before work is in the dictionary.

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A Group Discussion of My E-book!

Writing a book can be a long and lonely process, so hearing a reading group discuss my published product with insight was validating. The activity was productive in a very positive way. I gathered ideas on how to make my second book more powerful. And I walked away with a clutch of comments like hugs to draw on during down times.

October is National Reading Group Month. How fitting that the first (note the optimism) formal discussion of my book took place in October, October 31st—Halloween—as it were. It all seemed particularly auspicious for a discussion of “Beware the Sleeping Dog”.

I anticipated the discussion with considerable nervousness. I’m so much better at writing than at speaking. Imagine a group of esteemed academics discussing my book! One gentleman was the professor for a psychology course which I took years earlier. Little did I know at the time that I would now be discussing my published novel with him and other professors of humanities, engineering, mathematics.

My neighbor Dorothy accompanied me as a special guest. She played a dual role as my friend and neighbor and as the friend and neighbor of my primary protagonist. Afterwards she told me she observed approval and warmth on the faces of the participating group. Aaah, validation! Some writers (including me or perhaps especially me) are a needy group seeking approval wherever approval is to be found: through ratings and comments on; through spoken words of praise from family and friends; and through treasured moments in a book discussion.

I’ve included a motley mixture of comments, most of them closing with great job (or maybe it was “good” job) and some supportive words for my-novel-in-progress. Remember the power is in the pen and so this is all from my perspective.

“I was very impressed that you knew so much about writing.” “I admire you for all your work in getting the book published. I feel honored to have been a part of the process.”

“I think I found Mavis annoying and rash in the same way that Alice did! For such a bright person, she clearly shot from the hip at times.” (I interpreted that as a resounding success for my Alice character.) Another gentleman said he thought Mavis was brave in facing her demons. No one apparently had any reservations about the little hound.

One gentleman compared my usage of words to that of Joyce Carol Oates. (Thank you!)

The unique strengths of a book depend on the reader’s expectations. One professor gently indicated my character seemed a little stiff with her internal dialogue, especially about religion. Another indicated that my character’s internal dialogue rang true. Both were right, of course, as it’s all about perspective.

There was some speculation as to whether or not I had written myself into the book. In my opinion, fiction writers almost always share an integral part of themselves with the characters they create. Or maybe it’s the other way around: characters share a part of themselves with their authors. In order to show not tell, I had to experience situations through my characters senses. So really fiction writers are actors playing many roles. Of course, Dorothy is a real person. Sprite and Velcro were my beloved pets. Carl and Gladys were my parents in real life.

Will there be a murder as well as mayhem in my next mystery? Will Ron and Mavis move ahead with their relationship? Will Mavis still shoot from the hip? Time will tell on that. I have a beginning and an ending and 17,000 words written for the second mystery. A lot can happen in the next 53,000 words and through the subsequent flurry of edits and rewrites.

One of the many benefits of this book discussion is the expressed possibility of “Beware the Sleeping Dog” becoming the book club offering of two reading groups. I’m thrilled and honored at that prospect.

Do I walk a little taller and smile a little more after Friday? Yes! Thank you to a group of kind and attentive academics. And to my fellow writers: Keep writing prolifically and embrace every opportunity to discuss your endeavors.

I would be honored if you would comment below in the “Leave a Reply” block!

From “Beware the Sleeping Dog”, kindle version: A Great Read!, October 15, 2014 By Deborah Rentler “Prodigal Daughter”  “… It was hard not to love dear Mavis, even in the midst of her initially passive approach to her dilemma. In the end it was her appreciation of the beautiful Maine landscape and tender heart toward her pets that kept me rooting for her throughout the story. A great read!”

Kindle is software!

An ‘aha’ moment for me was when I discovered Kindle is software not just an e-reader. Probably everyone else in the world–especially YOU!–were almost born knowing this.  Despite my best efforts to avoid any thoughts about the nuances of software, my role as publicist and entrepreneur is pushing me into it, once again with much gnashing of my teeth. I now understand that anyone can download a “free Kindle reading app” by searching on that phrase and then executing and running the program on a PC or Mac; through Kindle Cloud; or for an iPad or an Android or Windows 8. Once again you probably already knew that. But me, with my Comp Sci degree and 7 years’ experience as a programmer in my previous life, hadn’t a clue. It’s a good thing for me that my husband Wayne Reidinger has the patience of Job! Writing my Maine mystery–despite the years’ of effort–apparently was the easy part. Marketing is not just a chapter in the process … it’s a whole book unto itself.